One of the tenets of Christianity is daily prayer. It’s one of the things that a “good” Christian is supposed to do, not only to deepen our relationship with God. But to bond ourselves closer to one another and become more Christ-Like in our daily walks. And, many of us do exactly that. We pray. Boy oh boy do we pray. We pray for just about anything and everything. But what are we really praying for? Or rather, whom are we praying for?
When Jesus prayed, he prayed for others. Many, many times, throughout the New Testament, are examples of Jesus praying for “others.” Even in midst of sinister machinations by those set to destroy his credibility and his life, Jesus would still lovingly pray for others.
Well, one thing I’ve discovered about myself, (with a tinge of shame, I might add) is that in the midst of my small daily problems, I can become so self-absorbed that all my prayers and supplications become singularly focused on three people and three people only. No, not the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, but rather . . . me, myself and I.
“Oh Lawd in Heb’m,” (oops, sorry, that’s the “Georgia” coming out in me). “Oh Lord, please don’t let MY tests come back positive,” “Dear Lord in Heaven, please help ME to get a good job;” “Lord, I pray you guide ME to prosperity,” “Oh Lord, help MY kid to get good grades, so I won’t have to pay for college all by MYself.” Me, myself and I. Me, My, Mine. But, if I am to successfully attempt to follow the path of Jesus, shouldn’t I be putting others first, as he did? Even when things are “rough” for me, I should be praying for others.
Now let me tell you, I know it’s difficult to pray for others before yourself, even when things are going well. But these days, with all the economic hardship, disease, immorality, war, and worldwide strife happening daily, not to mention our own little daily “troubles”, the “difficult” can seem almost impossible. But it is precisely at this time, during these moments, that we all should be praying for one another. Even our enemies, or rather, those we perceive to be our enemies.
Wasn’t it Jesus who wanted us to do just that? Wasn’t it Jesus who said: Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you?,” Matthew 5:44. Now if Jesus wants us to pray for our “enemies” then it just makes sense that He’d also want us to pray for our non-enemies as well. Not just for our selves, or for our loved ones, but for EVERYONE.
Imagine how much more “Heavenly” our existence here on Earth would be if we all could manage to do that. Praying for others is absolutely vital for each and every Christian’s spiritual growth. And since my goal in my Christian walk is to grow in depth of spirit, grow in love for others and grow in the ability to become less self-absorbed and more “other-absorbed,” I need to pray more for others. That way, I become much less self-absorbed and so much more “Christ-Absorbed.” I’ve got a long way to go, I know. But I also know that if I pray for others, then some “other” out there will probably pray for me. Right? Hint, hint.





